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If you’re a teen, you’re probably here because something about school isn’t working and you’re ready for a change. If you’re a parent, you’re here because you want the best for your child. Either way, welcome. I’m glad you’re here!

As a teen, maybe you’ve been struggling at school. Each day you come home more and more distressed and you feel like you’re reaching your breaking point. As a parent, it's breaking your heart to see your child’s desperation and you know deep down that their needs aren't being met.

Maybe you or your parents feel like you’re the big fish in the pond and the pond is getting way too small. Or, maybe you feel like one of the hundreds of tiny fish and your parents (and maybe you) are afraid you’re getting left behind.

Maybe your family schedule or life isn't what's considered traditional, and normal school hours or locations don't work for you. Maybe health, mental,physical or safety struggles have held you back from going to a traditional school. 

Whatever the case, it's ok! In this article, we'll investigate the different types of school options in Colorado and the pros and cons of each. 

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Traditional High School in Colorado and the High School Diploma

Let's start with what most parents and teens are familiar with: what we call traditional schooling, or getting your high school diploma. Most traditional high schools in Colorado are characterized by physical classrooms in attendance with their peers, face-to-face interaction with teachers, and a structured curriculum, where teens receive a high school diploma upon completing all their credits. For some families and teens, the familiarity and structure of a traditional school provides the right combination of social environment, learning opportunities, and security that they need. For others though, what may have been the cornerstone of education may no longer work. 

Benefits of Traditional High School & Getting a High School Diploma

Perhaps one of the biggest benefits of traditional schools is the social interaction they provide. In a traditional setting, teens can develop interpersonal skills, build friendships, and participate in extracurricular activities such as sports, clubs, and events with peers within their direct community. Teens may also have access to resources like libraries, laboratories, and specialized facilities that may not only enhance their learning experience, but their social development as well. 

Other benefits of attending a traditional high school may include:

• structured and fairly predictable learning environment

• qualified teachers (in Colorado, public school teachers must pass a variety of requirements, including but not limited to a bachelor's degree or higher, licensure, and completion of an approved teacher preparation program according to the Colorado State Board of Education) 

• counseling, support services, and preparation for higher education and careers

Cons of Traditional High School & A High School Diploma

Unfortunately, traditional schools and getting a high school diploma can also present challenges for some teens. Overcrowded classrooms, rigid schedules, lack of accommodations, and limited flexibility in the curriculum can hinder a teen's ability to thrive academically and emotionally. And as great as being with peers can be, issues such as bullying, peer pressure, and misguided disciplinary policies can make this type of school experience a nightmare. 

Other cons of attending a traditional high school may include:

• large class sizes

• emphasis on standardized testing (which leads to...)

• bureaucracy, funding, and cost issues

Alternative Colorado Schools: Exploring Online/Alternative/GED Programs

In recent years, online, alternative, and GED programs have provided families with alternative options to traditional schooling. These programs offer flexibility, personalized learning experiences, and innovative approaches to education that may better cater to the needs and learning styles of teens. Like all choices though, there are also some drawbacks to these alternative options. 

Let's dive in. 

Distance Learning/Online High School

Distance learning, or online education allows teens to complete their coursework remotely, providing flexibility in terms of scheduling and location. Most online schools provide similar curriculums to in-person schools, with students participating in individual and group assignments with peers. Online school can be particularly beneficial for teens who have other commitments, such as part-time jobs, extracurricular activities, or family responsibilities, or for teens who have disabilities or giftedness that make it difficult to attend in-person classes.

Other Pros of Online High School

• Wide range of course options, allowing teens to pursue their interests and tailor their education to their career goals

• Often available to students of any age

• Some programs are self-paced

Cons of Online High School

• Limited social interaction

• Lack of hands-on learning

• Potential for distraction and academic integrity issues 

GED Programs/GED Test

GED (General Equivalency Degree or General Educational Diploma) programs provide an alternative pathway to obtaining the equivalent of a high school education and diploma. Teens or young adults can take either a GED program to help them prepare for the GED test, or take the GED test by itself. The GED test assesses proficiency in core subject areas and is recognized as equivalent to a high school diploma by employers and colleges.

In Colorado, a student must be at least 17 years old to take the test, or 16 years old with the approval from the Colorado HSE Office for your High School Equivalency Age Waiver.

Pros of GED

• Flexibility in terms of preparation and testing

• Teens and young adults do not have to attend traditional, scheduled classes to receive a high school diploma

• Many GED programs offer resources such as college counselors, practice tests and reviews, and study groups

• "One and done test" of four core subjects is all that is needed to obtain the GED credential

• Can receive college credit and GED-specific funding if a certain score is achieved 

Cons of GED

• Only core subjects are tested or taught in GED programs

• Stigma: Some GED holders may face bias from employers and higher education

• Some financial aid is not available to GED holders

• Since there are no scheduled classes, there aren't as many social opportunities for students 

Alternative Schools

When we talk about alternative schools, we're referring to any school that offers a non-traditional approach to education. Examples of alternative schools include Magnet, Charter, Montessori, religious, remedial, boarding, private, special education, and many more. These types of schools are typically focused on experiential learning, individualized instruction, and holistic development. 

Pros of Alternative Schools

• Class sizes are typically smaller and individuals have a chance to receive more one-on-one attention

• For teens and young adults who are neurodivergent, gifted, or otherwise disabled, alternative schools often offer a chance to be accommodated and supported 

• Some alternative schools prioritize creativity, critical thinking, and hands-on learning, allowing students to explore their own interest, which fosters a sense of autonomy and self-discovery

Cons of Alternative Schools

• Competition: Many alternative schools, like Charter and Magnet schools, run on a lottery system for enrollment

• Cost: Alternative schools can range in price from free to more than $26,000 a year. Even if enrollment may be free, uniforms, extracurriculars, and supplies may cost extra.

• Stigma: Students may face negative perceptions from parents, educators, and employers who value traditional educational approaches over alternative ones

Key Considerations for Parents When Helping Their Teen Choose a School

I know, it's a lot to digest. Hopefully, the information above gave you at least a sneak peek into some of the pros and cons of each type of school. But you're probably thinking, "Where do I go from here?"

Let me help by giving you, the parents, a few things to consider when thinking about your teen and their education. Keep in mind that what may have worked for your friend or family member's teen isn't necessarily what will work for yours. Every young person has their own needs, wants, difficulties, and strengths. In fact, sit down with them and consider these factors together.

1. Learning Style

Consider your teen's learning style and preferences. Does your teen thrive in a traditional classroom setting, with structured lessons and peer interaction? Or do they march to the beat of their own drum and struggle when constrained? Would an education that's more flexible and allows them to be autonomous be better?

2. Academic Needs

What are your teen's academic needs and goals? If your teen requires additional support, has specific learning challenges, such as ADHD, Autism, or dyslexia, or is told is gifted, an alternative school or online program with personalized instruction, accommodations, and/or opportunities may be beneficial.

3. Personal Circumstances

Take into consideration your teen's personal circumstances. Are there health issues, family responsibilities, or extracurricular commitments that make attending traditional school difficult? Are they struggling with their current peers? Would online or alternative schools be more accommodating or less stressful? Would getting a GED be a more streamlined approach to future goals?

4. Future Aspirations

Speaking of the future, what are your teen's career aspirations or long-term goals? Certain career paths may require (or at least prioritize) a traditional high school diploma, while others may place more emphasis on skills and experience. Take time to research educational requirements and industry standards in your teen's chosen field.

5. Support Network

Last, but not least, think about the level of support available to your teen in both traditional and alternative school settings. Consider factors such as access to teachers, counselors, and peer support, as well as the school's policies on academic, identity, and emotional support. Also consider social opportunities for your child with their peers and what their preferences are. Good relationships are crucial for young people, and can make or break their educational experience. 

Life Transitions Therapy and Counseling for Teens and Young Adults in Colorado

Choosing the right educational path for you (or your teen) isn't easy, but I hope we've made this significant decision a little easier. While traditional schooling may be the default option for many families, here at Interfaith Bridge Counseling we want you to know that there are alternative options that can ensure a teen's unique needs and circumstances are met. We believe all young people have the right to choose and succeed in their educational journey and beyond.

If you or your teen feel they need help navigating crucial life changes like moving schools, going to college, or starting life on their own, please don't hesitate to reach out. We're here to provide teens and young adults a safe place to explore their values, build sustainable coping skills, and connect with their community.

About Our Author | Lena McCain MA, LPC. 0017723

Lena McCain is our Founder here at Interfaith Bridge Counseling, where she continues her support as our Clinical Director. She also holds a Master of Arts degree in Clinical Mental Health: Mindfulness-Based Transpersonal Counseling Psychology from Naropa University.

Lena’s drive and passions lie in the realm of community building and youth collaboration, which she has spent the last 12 years studying with an emphasis on one’s exploration of personal growth, community healing, and multicultural values. Lena’s expertise in these areas and the therapeutic field acts as a reminder to our community, teens, and young adults that they are not alone in their experience of life.